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The Do’s & Don’ts of Wedding Planning

The Do’s & Don’ts of Wedding Planning

March 14, 2018

Planning your wedding will be one of the most special (and possibly stressful) times of your life. We’ve laid out a few of our top “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to help smooth out the planning process and hopefully avoid some roadblocks along the way.

The Do’s:

1) Do rely on the professionals
Pinterest is full of great concepts, but bringing those ideas to life can be difficult. Pittsburgh is full of experienced vendors that want to help make your special day exactly what you are envisioning. What if you don’t yet have a vision for your event? They can help you brainstorm and use your Pinterest photos for inspiration.

2) Do incorporate your interests in your event
There are so many ways to integrate your interests and personality into an event. Whether that’s through your color palette, branding, or a special dessert, your event should be a reflection of who you as a couple.

3) Do enjoy the process
Engagements are a special time for not only you and your fiancée, but for your friends and family as well. Be sure to soak in the process and celebrate your small victories (i.e. choosing some stellar centerpieces or picking your perfect cake.)

The Don’ts:

1) Don’t sweat the small stuff
Think big picture – location, vendors, guest list, etc. We’re not saying to forget about the details (especially because we LOVE details,) but try not to focus on them until the larger aspects of your event are covered.

2) Don’t procrastinate
Waiting until the last minute is a big “no-no” when it comes to wedding planning. Not only does it cause unnecessary stress, but it can also take away from your special day.
Are you a natural procrastinator? Give yourself 2 to 3 larger components to take on each month. Before you know it, you’ll have handled all of your major tasks and will be left with only smaller details to manage.

3) Don’t try to handle everything yourself
Avoid looking back on your wedding planning as a never-ending to-do list. It’s essential to delegate some of the planning to your trusted loved ones, a professional, or both!
If you’re a “control freak,” make a list of the aspects that aren’t as important to you and your fiancé, and start to delegate those pieces first. If you don’t hire a Full-Service Wedding Planner, then we believe that every wedding should have a Day-Of Coordinator. This way you have a dedicated professional attending to only you and your wedding all day.

Video Blog Series: Why Hire a Wedding Planner?

March 7, 2018

Hear from Shari Zatman, Owner and Principal Event Planner and Designer of Perfectly Planned by Shari on the benefits of hiring a wedding planner.

Video Blog Series: Get to Know Shari Zatman

February 23, 2018

Get to know Owner and Principal Event Planner and Designer, Shari Zatman, of Perfectly Planned by Shari. This is the first in the series of upcoming videos.

For the Romantic Procrastinator: Last-Minute Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

For the Romantic Procrastinator: Last-Minute Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

February 12, 2018

The most romantic holiday of the year is just two days away. We trust that you’ve already planned out a perfect night full of dreamy surprises, BUT just in case you haven’t, here are some great last-minute date options in or around Pittsburgh:

For the Adventurer
Pittsburgh offers tons of great museums and unique activities, if your Valentine is looking for a fun-filled holiday. Visit the Schenley Park Ice Skating Rink for a special night under the stars or Phipps Conservatory for a romantic day time date surrounded by the beautiful botanical gardens. If you are planning to celebrate over the weekend, Phipps Conservatory is open on Saturday evening.

For the Art-Inspired
Express your creativity by blowing your own glass art at the Pittsburgh Glass Center, or stop by the Candle Lab in Lawrenceville to pour your own scented soy candles. These options are a fun way to make memories while enjoying each other’s company.

For the Hopeless Romantic
Surprise your loved one with a night’s stay at one of the wonderful local hotels. Pamper them with a spa treatment at the Fairmont hotel in Downtown Pittsburgh or share a candlelit dinner at the Commoner in Hotel Monaco.

For the Sweet Tooth
We all know that the real way to your loved-one’s heart is through their stomach. Take your sweetheart on a trip to Duck Donuts in Upper St. Clair for a treat.  These made-to-order customizable donuts are sure to satisfy any sweet tooth. Head to Waffallonia in Squirrel Hill for freshly made Belgian waffles or make a pit stop at Naturoll Creamery for rolled ice cream!

Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

February 11, 2018

We’re celebrating the most romantic holiday of the year by sharing some of our favorite gift ideas for your special someone. The best part? These gifts are all local to Pittsburgh – our favorite city.

Delightful Desserts
If you’re buying for someone who loves sweets, you won’t want to pass up the beautiful hand painted chocolate truffles from A519 Chocolate (who now have a pop up store in Lawrenceville) or the colorful macarons at the new Macaron Bar in Ross Park Mall. Sweet treats are a simple yet thoughtful gift, and Pittsburgh is full of awesome dessert vendors who are looking to help you find the perfect indulgence.

Edward Marc Chocolatier is another great option for a sweet gift. This company is owned and operated by the same owner of The Milkshake Factory. It’s no surprise that their desserts are irresistible; they use only sustainably-sourced ingredients for their delicious products. They not only sell hand-made chocolates, but a delicious variety of caramel dipped apples as well.

Fresh Flowers
Flowers are feminine, fun and fragrant. They’re a feel-good gift that reminds your loved one how much you care. Visit Allison McGeary Florist’s storefront in Lawrenceville for a beautiful bouquet or call Hens and Chicks in the Strip District for an impressive arrangement! Want to surprise your loved one with a flower delivery? Both Hens and Chicks and Allison McGeary can deliver one-of-a-kind arrangements right to your door.

Blissful Beauty Products
Pamper your loved one with a hand-crafted product from Una Biologicals in Lawrenceville. Their shop features organic lotions, soaps, essential oils and much more. Not sure which product to buy? You can also purchase a gift card for one of Una’s upcoming workshops!

Introducing: Perfectly Planned by Shari’s Video Blog Series

January 30, 2018

We are excited to announce a new video blog series featuring Shari Zatman, Owner of Perfectly Planned by Shari. Shari is an award winning Event Planner and designer with more than 20 years of experience in the industry.

5 Tips for Newly-Engaged Couples

5 Tips for Newly-Engaged Couples

January 24, 2018

You have the ring, you’ve spread the news and all of a sudden, scrolling through Pinterest for wedding ideas has become one of your favorite hobbies. With any wedding engagement comes some obvious stressors, but we’re here to help!

Here are our top 5 suggestions for the beginning stages of planning your wedding:

1.Take some time to enjoy your engagement
Before jumping into the planning process, take some time to truly enjoy your engagement. Whether that time together is spent on a romantic date, casual night-in, or a short getaway, be sure to savor this time together without discussing all of the wedding details.

2.Tackle that guest list
Creating your guest list early on can help you avoid a plethora of problems. You’ll have an understanding of how large of a venue you need, and how flexible you can be with your budget. This lays the framework for our next couple of suggestions.

3.Talk through your budget
Do you have a restricted budget or is it flexible? It’s important to work through your budget and decide who is contributing to the wedding expenses and what the maximum amount of money is that you are willing to spend on your wedding.

4.Secure a venue and wedding date
It sounds obvious, but it’s difficult to take any additional steps until you have selected a venue and confirmed your wedding date, so you need to start here. Since you have a general idea of how many guests you’ll invite and what your budget is, you can start to sort through venue options using those important criteria.

5.Consider your vendors
What vendors are most important to you – Your photographer or florist? Maybe it’s your band or a DJ? Start to research potential vendors, and don’t be afraid to meet with several for comparison before making your final decision. We may be bias, but we are positive that a professional Wedding Planner should be one of the first vendors you hire because we can help you make all of the right decisions. As with other vendors, explore your options and talk to different planners to see which one is the right fit for you.

(Featured image taken by Joey Kennedy Photography.)

Maggie & Chase’s New Year’s Eve Wedding

Maggie & Chase’s New Year’s Eve Wedding

December 31, 2017

What better way to ring in 2018 than with a jaw dropping wedding with your closest friends and family? Maggie & Chase celebrated their marriage at the Four Seasons in Chicago over the New Year, and we’re still swooning over the details. The Perfectly Planned by Shari team had the privilege of collaborating with HMR Designs, an event design company in Chicago, to create Maggie & Chase’s dream wedding.

From the revolving champagne table to the stunning centerpieces, this wedding truly brought the couple’s vision to life. Here are just a few of our favorite things:

Elegant Ceremony Space
A 40+ foot floral and candle lined aisle with dripping gladiolus florets overhead met by a custom coordinated gladiolus chuppah.


Candlelit Cocktail Hour
Custom-designed bars and back bars, candle-lit etageres for escort card display, lounge seating and fragrant florals.

cocktail hour

Reception Vibe
Ballroom entrances with vertical gardens of magnolia, white pine, cedar and oregonia.
Three unique centerpiece styles including 7’ tall magnolia trees and white pine trees aglow with “fairy” lights and glistening “bubble” candles.
A veritable garden of mixed evergreens and white king protea, hydrangea, roses and orchids accented with votive candles.


Personal Touches
Marble place cards done with dye cut gold lettering and a custom printed marbleized dance floor.
A sculpted cake made to look exactly like Maggie & Chase’s beloved dog.
Late night pizza that the Four Seasons made from Maggie’s grandmother’s recipe, presented in military style service and fanfare.


Just before midnight the guests joined in on a countdown and were surprised by confetti canons that launched at the stroke of the New Year.

Thank you to the many fabulous vendors that helped us make this wedding so amazing: HMR Designs, Frost Lighting, Imagination Designers, Kent Drake Photography, Chicago Players, Nota Bene, Four Seasons Chicago.


Tis the Season for Engagement – Gift Ideas for the Newly-Engaged Couple

Tis the Season for Engagement – Gift Ideas for the Newly-Engaged Couple

December 27, 2017

Engagement season is finally here, which means love, celebration and some new bling. Looking for a thoughtful gift for your newly-engaged loved ones? We’ve got you covered. Scroll through our favorite gift ideas for the happy couple.

One Hope Bottle

1. Sip, Sip Hooray! What better way to celebrate than with a sparkly bottle of sparkling wine – especially when your purchase supports a nonprofit organization. We love the glitter details on these One Hope Wine bottles.
One Hope Wine, California Brut Sparkling Wine Gold Shimmer Edition
One Hope Wine

Kate Spade Etched Glasses
2. Let’s toast to the happy couple! Celebrate with a cocktail in a set of “yours” and “mine” etched glasses. The best part? These High Ball glasses are dishwasher safe.
Kate Spade New York, Two of a Kind Yours and Mine High Ball Set
Kate Spade

Ring Dish

3. To have and to hold – A ring dish that can be customized with initials, engagement date, a monogram, and much more! It’s perfect for that new “bling”.
HappilyLittleHomeShop, Personalized Engagement Dish with Initials

Vow Books

4. Is the couple writing their own vows? Their wedding day sentiments will be kept safe with these letter-pressed vow journals. A thoughtful gift for not only the wedding day, but also their bright future together.
QuinnLuu, Letterpress Vow Journals (Set of 2)

Two in the Kitchen Cookbook
5. We love a couple who cooks together! This is a useful gift that allows the couple to spend quality time together in the kitchen. This cookbook features over 150 recipes for all different occasions.
Williams Sonoma, Two in the Kitchen Cookbook
Williams Sonoma